We have a tendency to reflect what is going on with ourselves onto other people. Meaning if you are negative you will have a tendency to wear negativity all around you. You will express it in the way you walk the look, the way you view the world and the way you talk.
One easy way to break out of this mold is to start talking more positively. Try to see everything with rose colored glasses. This may take some getting used to at first but it will really make a big difference in your life!
An easy way to expedite this new way of living is to set up attainable goals for yourself. Starting out, set a goal where you will compliment someone every day. Once you get better at this you can raise your goal.
Complimenting others will have MANY positive effects on you.
1) People will see you as a confident charming person
2) You will see how your simple words made someone feel really good about themselves and that will make you feel good about yourself and more CONFIDENT
3) You will start to notice that people want to be around you more often
Complimenting is REALLY easy. Just keep your eyes open. Opportunities to compliment people are ALL over the place. From the color of someone’s eyes to the clothes they wear to their car, etc.
Don’t be creepy about it or make a deal out of it. Just make it natural as though you just noticed.
For example if you are talking to someone and they have beautiful colored eyes.
“Wow you have really nice eyes.”
They will say thank you and they you say you’re welcome.
THAT is it no need to spend any more time on it. They will feel awesome and you will get to take joy in the fact that you just made someone’s day.
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